Let’s take a look at the perspective of an infertile who has finally had a successful pregnancy. The positive pregnancy test alone is a step in the right direction. But, as many know this isonly one small portion of success to an infertile who has a long track record of disappointment and loss.
When baby is born and all is well, what must it feel like to have a baby? The dream is alive and breathing and cute and looks like daddy. What is the adjustment like? For so long the couple longed to have exactly what is now laying in their arms.
I can only imagine how unbelievable it must be. And, what does it mean for the relationships forged during the difficult IF path?
Please read this entry from Kelly at Twin Peas Blog. It offers a great amount of insight.
It opened my eyes to new challenges that people face after infertility. Changes that take place with pregnancy or adoption.
http://twinpeas.com/wordpress/infertility/test/234/